This post is exactly what it sounds like. I’m tired of my body constantly being objectified. Every time I go to enter a relationship, or even if I’m just talking to a guy, my body somehow becomes the priority every single time. Men comment on my ass and touch it without asking. Guys almost always try to make sexual advances by the third date and then ghost me when I say I want to wait a little longer and get to know them better. Half the guys I talk to ask for nudes right away. I once had a guy try to grope me like 30 minutes into our FIRST date.
It also sucks that it’s very difficult for me to make any guy friends. Almost every time I try to become friends with a guy, he tries to hit on me and gets mad when I say I just want to be friends. I have had numerous guys block me after I say I want to just be friends. It just feels like no one wants to get to know the real me. Why do guys not care about my personality or feelings? Why do they only seem to want one thing from me? I want to be treated like a human being and not objectified. I just needed a place to rant about this, so thank you to anyone who has tuned into my rant.