AITA , Husband (currently separated) hates my family for no reason
I’m starting to feel like I’m crazy. My husband and I have been married almost 10 years and it has always been somewhat toxic. We have high highs and very low lows . Currently we are separated , not living together and coparenting our 4 year old. A LOT has happened up to this point , I never thought I could actually leave him but I finally realized that this marriage is slowly killing me/ my spirit. Anyways to the point, this man HATES my male cousin. Now just maybe 2 months ago we all hangout and were friends. Then it started, if my cousin and I were like hanging out having drinks in the garage and my husband says he was going to sleep , he wouldn’t. He would keep randomly coming in the garage slamming doors and getting more and more drunk. He was mad that I was like having fun with my family. He used to say sorry or that he felt bad but now he is just a complete asshole. He came to pick up our daughter today and my cousin and one of my best friends were over last night. He flew into a rage and told me he is no longer allowed in our house (husband currently isn’t even living in our home). I’m starting to feel like I’m insane and that even though I know my husband is ridiculous that he’s right. I hang out with my cousin like once a week , he has never been an ass to my husband and he is my family. What do I even do here? Right now we are seperated but I think I need to go to therapy and file for divorce.