u/Dependent-Fee-8866

Him and I have been together for around 2 years and he has always been very sweet, very loving and affectionate and I never had any doubts about him cheating or any sort of thing like that, only him following a bunch of girls on every social media app and when asked to unfollow(as I did before out of respect) he’d complain how it’s too many accounts to go through. Even liking posts, to him it was a simple like on a photo nothing more. I saw this red flag and carried on with the relationship simply because I felt like maybe I was being too dramatic? maybe I was doing too much in a way. This instance was at the very beginning of our relationship and never any problem, however now the issue is that he’s going through a rough patch economically, lost his job which then led him to lose his car and now he’s got nothing really. On occasion he does little side gigs for money and I’m advising him that he should go into the blue collar field as my dad did since it’s a very good opportunity, providing long term job with good income (this had been a job offer available wayy before he got put in this situation and he refused the first 2 times) He always says that’s what he wants to do however his actions say otherwise, no sense of urgency whatsoever. I don’t want to seem like I’m a gold digger or anything like that because the most I’ve gotten throughout this relationship was silver jewelry and perfumes, also taught me how to drive if that even counts, but I don’t think a partner should be dragging you back in life and instead making your life better. I’m not sure if I’m asking for too much from him, if I’m being too harsh and should help him, or simply leave him. pls helpp