u/DenseAnalyst123

I recently arrived in China a few months ago and my coworker helped setup my Meituan and TaoBao with my address and stuff. However, I think she also included her phone number on my account to help with deliveries (so they call her instead of me if there's an issue with a delivery since I don't speak Chinese).

In that time I ordered a few things (fast food on Meituan, but condoms and sex toys on TaoBao). The company of the sex toys I ordered said everything would be kept discreet (plain packaging, SF express, delivery driver didn't know what I ordered) and it seems to be the case, but now I'm not so sure...

My coworker recently messaged me saying there was a problem with my fast food order (she knew what I ordered) so now I'm a little freaked out.

Is it possible she knows that I ordered sex toys?

My training centre wants me to be really expressive and happy all the time, especially when the parents are with their kids when they enter/leave the school.

Is this normal? They're paying me to teach but they also want me to be a clown, be happy, be really expressive during demos, etc.

I'm not sure if I can do this tbh (I feel embarrassed, especially if the parents are watching me).