u/Demetra927

My ldbf (29m) and I (26f) have been together for over 3 years and I feel like giving it up. We are no where close to closing the distance gap. His job hasnt paid him at all when he's on a contract based worker. He's been there since we started dating and I keep suggesting that I could leave my job and start a new one in the same city as him. But he refuses to let me come to him or bring him home back to the states and live with me. What should I do? Do I give up on this relationship or keep trying to stay with him? Everything feels hopeless and i dont know what to do.