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This is gonna be a long rant / post. Please read with patience.

I'm 19 and in btech second year rn , for as long as i remember my father was a alcoholic and he used to physically and verbally abuse me , my mom and my little brother. We lost everything in the Covid, 3 flats and a own house , he became addicted to gambling and alcohol and he quit his job , he was unemployed for 5 years and he torchered us till hell. In Covid , he hurt my mom so much that she had to get stiches for her head. From then we were staying with our grandpa(mom's father) he is a retired pensioner but he also used to abuse us daily taunting that I gave everything to your mother(dowry) still she came here , what did I do wrong such that my daughter's life is spoiled. He even threw my mom out , inspite of all this me and family moved out in my first year of inter, then my father came living with me. Everything was good , he stopped drinking and all it was nice , but after completion of inter he took alot of loans and wasn't able to pay them off and he ran off to Hyderabad. We came again to grandpas house , this time the tantrums were even more like my grandpa was taunting us daily 24/7 , now we have acquired money for house shifting after 1.5 years. My father sent 50k for house shifting , but he again asked 20k in that 50k idk why he just asked and mom gave him. And he called today and again asked for 10k , I became alot furious i questioned how much more will you drink , I shouted alot . He also shouted but idk man , he scolded me alot saying : lanzodaka , nen pedte tintunav nuvvu , nuvvu aathu tho samanm , nuvvu bratiki waste low cgpa gadivi and alot. Now idk what to do , i just want our family to be together kani anyone doesn't fucking understand

Idantha kakamundu , from my btech my father used to be alot good with me like sending me messages daily and sending me money whenever I asked kani shit man asal intha darunanga ela untaru , he even cheated on my mom , my mom didn't leave cause society lo father leni children ante chulkanaga chustaru ani.

Prati danki money problem , bokka danikosam ma daddy medha depend avvalsi ostundi , nen earn chese dhaka ee torcher thappademo. Ma mummy chala great ivanni 25 years nundi baristundi

Tldr: family trauma's summarised version