I’m living a fckn hallmark movie help….
I’m going to try to make this concise as possible, but I’m really messed up in my head right now and wondering… is this too good to be true?
So I’m 34 female, fully separated, but about to be divorced. No kids in a very clean situation here financially. My marriage lasted and whopping one year and I initiated the divorce.
I was a very loyal wife, but something happened recently. I’ve gone feral. I travel for work and bounce in between Texas, North Carolina and South Carolina Carolina. I’ve definitely got hoes in different area codes ;) I feel pretty and confident like I never have before.
My mom lives in a sleepy little beach town so while I am in between travels, I’ll hang out in her area. Recently, I’ve been frequenting the beachy dive bars to hop on my laptop from time to time.
So out of the blue, I basically meet this guy‘s dad he’s 40. The guy is 40 not his dad. His dad basically introduces me to his son. We get plastered and then one thing leads to another, and I’m hanging out with both of this guy’s parents. Apparently they love me and they have never taken to a single woman he’s brought around.
He’s so cute. So attentive he pays attention to what I like and what I don’t he wanted to order some of my cosmetics so that if I was in town again and wanted to stay over, I’d be comfortable.
The problem is like I know it feels like love bombing. It’s not not excessive, but I also just don’t know what to do because he’s so cute to me and I do want to see him again and I’ll be back in town in a few weeks. He’s planning a beach day, lunch with his parents, going on a cute date night to listen to live music. Breakfast. He cooks too.
I just left town, but we went out on a little date night before I left and it seems like I’m always ending up back at his place. I did tell him that I don’t wanna rush into anything and I’m not in a place for a relationship and he said OK then we could just get to know each other then.
We both have our shit together in terms of career and I don’t come from a nice family and it just feels like he’s waiting there with everything that I was never getting before. And yes, I slept with him. And yes, it was mind blowing.
I’m trying to sort out my feelings. Is this too good to be true? Help