Turn off ba if your talking stage entertains jealousy jokes?
Problem/Goal:
Need ko lang ng POV/advice especially from kapwa lalaki. Valid ba nafefeel ko or am I just overthinking?
Context:
May ka talking stage ako and LDR kami. Earlier, she and her cousin video called me habang may sleepover sila with friends. Habang nasa call kami, her cousin kept trying to make me jealous tungkol sa isang male friend nila beside her — even calling her “babe” as a joke.
What bothered me is yung ka talking stage ko was just laughing along with it, parang ine-entertain niya rin yung joke. I know wala pa naman kaming label, pero honestly I felt disrespected and parang tine-test ako or ginagawang katatawanan dahil LDR kami.
Now I’m questioning if valid ba nafefeel ko or if I’m just overthinking. Kasi for me, parang turn off siya instead of “selosan joke” type of thing.
Worth it pa bang ituloy yung panliligaw or am I taking this too seriously?
Previous Attempts:
Hindi ko pa ino-open up sa kanya. I wanted to hear other people’s POV first before reacting emotionally..