My wife doesn’t work, we have full time childcare, we live a fairly lavish lifestyle of multiple vacations a year, eating out regularly, nice car, live in a large place right on the water, 4 year old kid goes to great private school, and live in one of the most desirable places to live in the world.
She’s miserable, honestly I don’t really know why. Says she doesn’t have time, or that I don’t do enough chores.
I’m miserable cause we have sex maybe once a month and very little intimacy and she still sleeps in bed with kid. And I work my ass off running a very stressful business to make the a lot of money to afford this lifestyle.
I’m ok with her not working but expect she does the housework if she isn’t which takes maybe 1-2 hours a day. But instead she plugs away at her hobbies and house is a mess.
I love her very much but can’t seem to make her happy. She can do whatever she wants all day, and I have said if she wants to work go for it I support it just contribute to the household if she does.
Wouldn’t most women be grateful for this lifestyle?
I also buy her flowers, tell her how much I love and appreciate her daily.
But it’s not working and I’m thinking divorce is on the horizon.
We have gone to counselling didn’t help.
Please help.