Writing from my throwaway... : )
I try to set boundaries in a cute and classy way (which might be the problem lol) but I'm still getting used to doing so much c2c on SM when on CB and MFC it was just on occasion. On the other sites if someone types "show ass" in open chat I either ban them or first I usually in a teasing way redirect them to showing me nicer treatment i.e. "You have to train men how to treat you" (which I hate saying it that way because their not a dog but you know what I mean lol).
I'm probably going to sound like a nerd when I say this but I think that one of the most problamatic things in camming is the power dynamic between us and the customer - especially when we're naked on cam. Earlier today I had a customer in exclusive on SM and this sounds like such a silly thing to complain about but I hated the way he was talking to me on c2c, he said "Show ass" instead of "Can I see the booty?" Now this is just a little tiny thing and I've had serious moments and this wasn't one of them at all (and maybe it's partly because I'm pmsing) but at the same time I was annoyed and not annoyed enough to leave the chat but I wanted him to be more polite and didn't know how to set the boundary in a way that "keeps the heat up" but also sets the tone for how I want to be talked too.
I figure he's a grown ass man, I'm a grown woman and if I'm naked on camera then that's a gift to him whether or not he see's it that way and regardless of the money. I might sound a bit like a stiff but does anyone have any guidance on ways to set the tone or redirect the tone when customers are being rude but your in an exclusive or private?
I'm usually0 good at this but I think I'm struggling with SM because (to me) it feels like5 it's a different type of customer. Their spending way more (even with me getting less) and rich men aren't used to being told no and their also used to getting their way. And it hasn't been for ever customer, I had another exclusive today who was super nice but I have noticed quiet a different tone on SM and I think it's because the clients are paying more and that sector of customer acts a little different?
If anyone has any tips for a sexy "ladylike" way to redirect clients to talking to them better in exclusive/pvt please help a girl out!! lol! xoxo