Lesbian or…
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I hope this is the right place.
I am 49 years old. I have six grown children, one grandbaby, and one on the way.
Through a ton of self discovery, I figured out that I am asexual. I cannot tell you what a relief it was because I always felt broken. It was like a diabetic living their life thinking they were the only person in the world that couldn’t eat sugar or white rice and then finding out that there’s a whole world out there of people just like them, a community if you will.
Upon further soul-searching and examining the relationships that I have had, the relationships that I find myself in, my friendships, and so on, I realize I actually have specific needs and specific preferences.
Idk what my proper titling is.
I have been talking to a trans ace, I believe they prefer non-binary. I am so new to this please forgive me and my ignorance.
Before meeting them, I had found myself looking to find a female who was more masculine than I, that would also be asexual (I am sex repulsed) and there you have it. I dont think I still like men. I don’t think that I could like a man romantically again. There’s absolutely no desire for sex in that area. It’s a whole no thank you. Even dating an ace man makes me feel like they would still wanna touch my boobs or something.
I just would feel safer with an ace woman. So long as they aren’t fem and wanting sexual intimacy. That being said I find myself really really really “in like” with a trans non-binary beautiful soul.
So does that make me bi? or does that make me a lesbian? does that make me pansexual? I’m so confused please help.
Thank you, thank you thank you had a time