u/Delicious-Brain-6316

I met him online through facebook, later we have talked in video call for 3 hours long , he looks such a good person and he was literally obsessed with me , he proposed me and after talking 3 months I accepted his proposal , we haven't met offline . He is unemployed now , once he gets the job ,he has assured me that then he will meet me ,. We have done sexting ,then we become more close by video call sex .. I have given him my pictures . I trust him very much ,that's not the problem .. The problem is that he talk sexual all the time and he has different fantasies like to bang his wife together with other people. He also told me to have hook ups and send him the videos and photos . His logic is as he loves me very much then if get pleasure ,he will also get pleasure by looking me get fucked . I don't know what to do I'm totally virgin ,yeah I have a previous boyfriend for 4 years but that also online . I'm literally puzzled ,for me sex without love is impossible..how can do sex with someone if I don't know him or don't have any kind of feelings for him . In real life even I never kissed anyone , I have one fear that if I get physically intimate with anyone I will never able to get detached from him . I want advices what to do in this situation.