Hi.
This is something I’ve always wondered about. I pretty much only have 2 hobbies that I invest significant time in that bring me joy.
Before, I’ve had friends who’ve asked if they can join me and I’ve always said no. For me, those 2 hobbies are my foundation for regulating my emotions and finding joy in life. Having others join me would only make me worried about “performing” for them, ensuring they’re having fun, having to teach them everything I know, etc. Pretty much, I wouldn’t really be having any fun due to being extremely self conscious.
Is this something that I would have to face in a relationship as well? As it stands, I really don’t want to make any concessions or compromises when it comes to these hobbies.
Would a potential partner be understanding or would this reasonably cause tension in a relationship?