u/Degree-Left

I just recently started dating this guy. He’s wonderful in almost all aspects of our relationship. He makes me laugh, we have the same interests and genuinely just enjoy each other’s company. HOWEVER I hate the sex between us and he’s starting to notice I’m not as interested as I was the first few times we did. The first time we had sex was decent (I had a few orgasms) but he didn’t want to do anything other than missionary (I chalked up to being nervous the first time). Now that’s all he wants to do is missionary no position change. I feel like I am just going with the motions until he’s finished but I just want to have passionate sex with a guy I’m starting to love!! It’s just him grunting on me for about 25 min then it’s over. I need ways to spice things up that he will enjoy as much as I will!!