u/Definitelynotdoss — reddlx

Story time,.. I recntly just got out of a serious relationship. 3 years. We live together we travelled places we made each other our home. on our 1st year living together i was happy and i could never ask for more as i am already content of whay we had. but ofcourse i have doubts. kase totoo yung sabi nila na sa makikilala mo lng ng tunay ang isang tao kapag iisang bubong na ang tinitiran nyo. She was lazy and does not know how to clean, cook or take care of herself. But i did not let it be a problem i teached her how to live a life as an adult. on our 2nd year i got tired i wanted to break up with her cause we always fought for the same reason.. mdumi bahay hugasin and all it was me who alwayys had to clean after my work as call center agent while her as only a stay in partner while waiting for her papers to study again. i got tired and i asked to break up sje begged and begged even though i already found someone. Ssd to say that woman i found is a cheater so it ended badly as for what i did came out to be cheating on my partner even if already asked to end it. regardless i owned the mistake give her everything to make up for it and after all she did to make me feel awful i found out that she slept with a man. i had to let it go cause apart of me says that its my fault. so we live our lives get past it. but along with that i had a doubt that she's doing something behind my back. how? she doesn't update me kahit ilang beses na namin na pag awayan na simple update is fine d naman nya need mag paalam to go to places she wants update lng sabi ko pero wala i got tired until hinayaan kona lng sya. then there comes the feeling when we have intercourse it doesn't feel that we have not had sex for 2 weeks or even more. it felt like someone was in there. I turned a blind site and said to myself that she wouldn't. I kept the doubt for 2 yrs. until march of 2026. one day when she went to school on a saturday to do a booth she said shes been helping to do. 7pm when i woke up she said that she is drinking with friends. i got pissed cause she said she has been busy all week and has no time to bond with me so i decided not to reply and head to work.

9pm i am at work and she is still not home. no reply. i began reaching out to her classmates asking question where she is. turns out when she told me that theu are going to drink at 7pm they are slready done and that she left her friends at that time. she booked a ride thru move it. as her classmate said. i realized thst her gmail is open on my phone so l looked for a receipt the voila she was dropped of on a staycation hotel at antipolo. i still had doubts maybe it was her classmate. so i went home in the midle of my shift and she is not there. i called her multiple times no answer. i went to that address she was dropped off. for 2 hours i waited til i gave up and went home. 3am had past she replied. " i am with another man" suddenly my whole world collapsed. i packed my stuff and left home stayed with friends for the night. in the morning she said she wants to talk so we talked. when i left our home i gave up our key crying myselg like a child then she said she want to work things out. hope came. but when i said i wsnt to talk to his guy first she stopped me i asked and asked until i was able to hear her say that she love him more than me. i asked her to pick and she chose him. they had sex. you'd think that nothing will hurt more but you are wrong when i ask who he is. its the same guy i caught her 1 and a half year ago.