u/Defiant_Version_5763

Keeping this as short as possible. I am currently in a ldr and see my partner about once a month. The last trip, I noticed that she had Tinder on her phone. I sat on it for 2 days, and then noticed that the app icon was gone from where it was the night before. I explicitly asked her why she had tinder, and she denied it. I explained that I wasnt going to be made to feel insane about this because I know what I saw. After some pretty heavy pressure she admitted to having it, and said she deleted it after the first night of the trip. Also came forward and said that somehow she had access to her old account (which she claimed to have deleted 8 months ago when we became exclusive) and all of her old matches, but didn't text any of them. Her excuse was that she had set it to females and was looking for female friends. Now, the only reason im even questioning my next move, is that we were coming off an argument regarding free time, in which I explained that she needs something to do other than sit on the phone with me. She told me the next day that she had downloaded bumble for friends. I guess her story checks out, but I cant get over her lying to my face about it. She says it was a mistake and she has no idea why she lied. Worth mentioning that there have been a few other subsequent events that have raised red flags, but not worth going into too much detail. Am i overthinking this??