If they are choosing to change anyway and stopped the behavior, moving on with their life and living. Why do they say it's maturing when you keep bringing their past in the present as if they don't have a new life and that defines who they really are forever that someone has to when you don't even know the whole truth or complete story, it's understandable that what the person did to someone that they hurt and did horrible too can affect their own life but sabotaging your own life forever just because you did something very wrong in your past, isn't reflecting it forever to not repeat it again and changing enough? Or we can't just control other people with what they think or do and that just what humans are so it's nothing to be can do about?
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If they are choosing to change anyway and stopped the behavior, moving on with their life and living. Why do they say it's maturing when you keep bringing their past in the present as if they don't have a new life and that defines who they really are forever that someone has to when you don't even know the whole truth or complete story, it's understandable that what the person did to someone that they hurt and did horrible too can affect their own life but sabotaging your own life forever just because you did something very wrong in your past, isn't reflecting it forever to not repeat it again and changing enough? Or we can't just control other people with what they think or do and that just what humans are so it's nothing to be can do about?
I use it much now to know what I'm doing is wrong or not because I don't have other people I can talk about it all the time.