u/Defiant-Room-9449

ive been committed to pitt for a while and i have a roomate, housing deposit, everything all figured out. but, today i went to penn state with my friend and liked it so much thats making me heavily question my decision. I toursd PSU in the summer and didnt like it, but now im having serious doubts.

im honestly regretting committing to pitt and questioning everything.

i’ve wanted to go to a city school for so long, but ive really realized you only get a college town once in your life. there are pros and cons to each, but i feel more guaranteed to have a better social life. pitt however has better programs i think for my psych major and pre pa track.

HELP. literally what do i do. did anyone regret committing cuz now im convinced im going to end up transferring and im scared.

Hey guys, I am going to be a freshman next year and I was wondering what you guys recommend to buy for our room. give me all your recs, things you wish you bought, things you didn't need, etc. I submitted my top choice for towers B if that helps.

also, a few questions: would you buy a laundry backpack or a hamper with wheels? if you had a bed skirt, were you glad you had one or was it just annoying, and what inch size drop down did you buy?

thanks so much!

help.

I'm not sure if this is a diagnosed thing, so for now let's just say that I have had avoidant tendencies for so long. every time a guy likes me I drop out due to the fear of being trapped, I have trouble with commitment, etc. I've only ever had one boyfriend and it ended around the 3 month mark and I saw a comment that relationships end around that time because of avoidant tendencies become worse or something like that near that time.

I have wanted a boyfriend for so long even when I was young, but I found it hard to be affectionate with my family, so I feel as though I've been an avoidant starting at a young age, which is how it usually works.

I worry that my relationship ended because I'm an avoidant, even though there were some incompatibilities with us. however, it got worse around the 3 month mark, which I'm worried was just from my attachment.

despite being an avoidant, I feel as though I have good emotional intelligence (my ex did not, which was one reason why I thought we didn't work). is that possible? to be an avoidant but very emotionally aware?

my talking stage before I got with my ex was the first time I was every the most vulnerable and open to being in a relationship, but he asked me to be his girlfriend and I declined. then my ex asked me and I was so excited. now, I'm scared I won't ever be able to get into a relationship again.

this post is a MESS but so is my brain right now. getting over a breakup, worried I won't be able to find anyone else because of my attatchment, and HELP how do I get over this.