being a virgin at 21 is annoying
this isnt some life shattering, existential nightmare to me realistically but it is annoying. I focus on work, taking care of myself both in terms of the gym and hygiene, i attend clubs, and i have friendships with women who i didnt approach to gain any sort of relationship/sex out of. I just want to feel desirable, and make a woman feel the same as well.
Im not some religious man who is waiting to lose it in marriage, I’m not a guy who parties too hard or is a total bore (hopefully), but I feel like theres either something missing in me that makes me a non option for being seen as a good choice or im just doing something wrong that im too clueless or stupid to recognize.
Maybe im too skinny or too short, i dont know. I dont hate anyone because Ive never been in a relationship/had sex but it does make me look at myself harshly.