Who should I go for
So I’m f16 and I haven’t really dated or gone on dates the only experiences I’ve had was my ex who I dated for 2 months when I was 13 and a older guy last year.
I was 15 last year and had a situationship with a 17 guy for a couple of months, it was very lustful and rushed. And now I’ve been having my eye on this guy Ethan for about 2 months now he’s very cute and k really want to get to know him and maybe something more and Ethan is also single at the moment, he’s very well known and lots of girls want him.
I’ve been wanting to shoot my shot but I’m very scared and I’m not sure especially now because a few weeks ago I added this guy on instagram , Sebastian and I honestly don’t really know why I did add him in the beginning but he dm me and we got to talking I was only responding because I didn’t want to be mean and I thought after a few convos we would move on about our day but we kept messaging and I don’t know why I didn’t just stop when I had the chance but I found myself responding to him and now he asked me on a date and said he was to be something with me. I don’t really know him and I said yes to the date because it was in the moment and he spurn it on me so fast but I did say yes and he gets the vibe I have multual feelings
I mean he’s a sweet guy and maybe I might like him but I’m very unsure with how I feel about him but I found out that Ethan and Sebastian goes to the same school, they are in the same grade they are both a year older and they go to a all boys school and they are close friends and I’m not sure if Sebastian has brought me up or anything liek how girls talk about the guys their talking with to their friends but I can’t exactly shoot my shot for Ethan now because Sebastian might find out and I don’t want to keep leading him on or treat him like a option if Ethan doesn’t work .
I’m kinda confused what to do Bec I said I’ll go on a date with Sebastian on the weekend but I don’t really know how I feel for him and I feel bad for leading him on and I don’t know how to say no or friend zone or block now and I don’t know if I should give up on the chance with Ethan and just see how things go either way Sebastian or cut off Sebastian and shoot my shot with Ethan