u/DeepTadpole6288

hi, i just had an appointment at my gyn and told her even after surgery and dilating nothing works, so i wanted to ask for pelvic floor therapy because i heard a lot of people here are doing it, but she said it makes no sense to force something up there when im traumatised by it?

Like basically it wouldn’t help because touching it/going in would be making it worse?

I don’t believe that because so many of you did go to pelvic floor therapy and said a lot of good things about it so what should I do?? is she right or should I just look for another gyn for a second opinion??

I’m dilating since two months and I’m stuck on the same dilator since a month. I just don’t feel like I’m getting any more stretched or anything, it just hurts the same and I’m wondering if I’m just meant to live this way without ever sleeping with my boyfriend 😭😭

why are we cursed with this shitty condition?? why does it take so long to progress? it’s so fucking frustrating!!!

has anyone else experience this before while on the mini pill?

sometimes, when I’m on my period, I barely bleed and it’s just a lot of black discharge. I’m worried what could be the cause of this because I just want to bleed normal red blood, and a normal amount??

has anyone else had this experience?

I was extremely anxious these days so that could be also the reason but damn I could fit in a bigger size this week too and today even the smaller one hurts and so I noticed I’m close to my period.. has anyone experienced this before?