Hello all! My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years now. We've been sexually active the past 3.
I have never been able to masturbate (hands or/and toys) and feel good. Everything is either too overstimulating, or has no feeling at all with nothing inbetween. The only thing that feels good is dry humping. I don't think I orgasm from it because I just come to a point where I'm like "yep I'm done" and never reach the climax people talk about.
My boyfriend is trying really hard to help me feel good. We aren't even looking for an orgasm anymore. Just something in-between crying from overstimulation, or getting turned off from no sensation. We've researched together, tried a million things, are very active haha, and he's trying his best.
My boyfriend gets hotter every day, and I am so comfortable and into him. I don't think it is a him issue at all. I think it's something I never learned how to properly do. Anyways, he gets sad because he wants to make me feel good and can't. Is anyone else struggling with this?