Why would she have broken up with me?
Me and my ex were together for only 2 months dating and one month talking. I am a guy and she is a girl if this helps. At first everything was good we were doing really good and she told me that she doesn’t usually get into relationships this fast and that she felt different about me. In every of my past relationships I have always been the guy that girls say “you’re the best guy I’ve been with” “I feel so different about you” “you’ve changed my perspective on love and dating”. I always tried to go above and beyond for her I would take her out for dinner multiple times a week and I was always there for her and we had good chemistry. Eventually she started to lose interest. Texting me and calling me less and being less eager to spend time with me. We are both teenagers in high school and she wanted to spend more time with her friends and I was always super supportive of her being out with her friends. Eventually I confronted her about why she was being so dry and she said she didn’t know how she felt about being with me. And then the next day I went over so we could talk. I was pretty much in hysterics crying and wanting to fix things since I really valued our relationship. I went over with flowers and we talked. She told me she didn’t think she was in a good mental state for a relationship. I’ve always wanted her to open up to me and I was really gentle with trying to get her to talk to me with no avail. I really tried all I could and she told me all these things about how I’m the kind of guy she would want to marry and how she doesn’t think she could do better than me. And honestly with the effort I put in with her at my young age I truly feel like she was being honest. She said she wanted to know what it was like being single since she has just been in and out of relationships. Then she broke it to me she had caught feelings for some other guy at school and I was heartbroken. She told me she would never ever be in a relationship with him and I believe her yet they still hangout all the time. He genuinely is a horrible person though. Like genuinely he cheats on everyone and I don’t know where this sudden ill gotten infatuation came from but it’s so confusing. Why would you leave the guy who would do anything for you and you say you would want to marry to go talk with a bunch of guys and be single. I always let her do what she wanted and barely had any boundaries with her on what she could do. And right after breaking up with me she’s been out until 1 am with her friends in the city and never going to school I don’t know if genuinely she just isn’t a person for relationships or what. But why did she have to do this to me it doesn’t make any sense at all. Why be with a guy who would do anything for you just to be young and immature. But to be honest after her breaking up with me I realized we were never really close in terms of who we are. She has no direction in life is a bad student and doesn’t know what the ocean is. And another reason for breaking up with me is that my good vocabulary makes her feel “retarded”. That sentence in itself speaks volumes. I really enjoyed her effervescent personality but now I’m realizing maybe I didn’t really care as much as I thought but just some kind of limerence towards her. All I want to know is why would someone do this it’s so odd I can’t wrap my head around it.