we have been dating for a decent time and initially we used to have a lot of time but he started working n now he isnt as available which i understand, we adjust around his schedule. but for about a month he has been putting way less energy which he even accepted. we keep having conversations about his lack of presence n he accepts it things change for a little n then go back to being the same. i dont know what to do, he is a good guy but his absence hurts a lot. i keep feeling i come second to everything in his life.
i want a break, internally also to make him realise how much he hurt me even if i tried to hold us together sm, n it isnt like he is a bad guy or hasnt tried but his efforts have been inconsistent and dwindling. like i m hurt now so i keep being mean to him but that isnt fair to him or me. i am so fucking confused(my anxious attachment is triggered so bad)