Attraction.
I don't know if I'm wrong or weird for this but I'm an African female that is attracted to gay men, especially the bottoms. Sounds weird with my African community and all that but ya, I like them that way. I don't mind if one wants to act feminine or musc in public but as long as they freaky and sexy behind closed doors. I like watching a good bottom in thongs and I'm dominant most of the time.