I feel a bit weird even writing this because I genuinely thought I was going to be single forever 😅 and I had actually made peace with that. I got to a point where I really enjoyed my own company and wasn’t even looking for anything.
At the beginning of February I started talking to a guy and the conversation just flowed… like we never ran out of things to say. By the end of Feb we met and I was SO nervous 😭 I remember thinking wow he is so handsome and I was literally sweating lol. But as the date went on I relaxed and realised I actually really liked him. He was kind, sweet and just felt genuine.
I did have that thing in the back of my mind like… okay but what’s the catch? waiting for the “he’s great BUT…” and it just never came.
From end of Feb to beginning of April we were going on dates, getting to know each other, still having our own space but also spending time together. It felt really balanced, like nothing forced.
Easter weekend he asked me to be his girlfriend 🥺 and honestly I’ve been enjoying it so much. I know it’s early and probably still the honeymoon phase but it’s been going really well.
He’s met one of my friends, we stay at each other’s, we do things together like arts and crafts, play board games, watch movies, go out … this weekend we literally built Lego together 😭😂 we go out but also enjoy staying in. He cooks for me, I cook for him, we make time for each other but we’re not on top of each other 24/7.
It just feels nice. Real. Easy.
I feel like we actually align on what we want and that’s such a good feeling.
Just wanted to put this out there to say Bumble can actually work 😭 don’t give up and really stand on who you are and what you want.