Throwaway because my boyfriend knows my main.
I will start by saying I love this man, we have been together for 2 years and were friends for 3 years prior. I have 0 intention on breaking up I am just trying to figure out if this is normal or a me problem.
Basically we both have super high sex drives and have sex multiple times a day. However lately there are little things that can happen throughout the day that just turn me right off. I can be very aroused (before anything sexual actually starts) and then he will do some random dumb thing and it's like it stops in it's tracks. An example would be: We usually make dinner together, eat, have sex and then shower together and watch a movie. During the dinner cooking process he will do something where he acts like he has no idea how to do a very basic task so I have to step in and do it. I feel sometimes in these moments like I am mothering him? Idk if this makes sense but these scenarios come up more and more frequently and it just completely deflates all my sexual desire for him for multiple hours if not the rest of the night.
Does anyone know what this is and/or how to stop it?