We’re friends and I’m glad!
So I’ve (21M) been talking to/been friends with this guy for a lil over a month, I kind of I’m not sure how to feel but I’m trying to differentiate between limerence and crushes right now more than ever. I have really bad anxiety as well as adhd just to say. I really don’t want it to be a brief obsession, I want to be his friend and be there for him and etc but I also kinda like him a lil. I want to know more about him but I sometimes end up not knowing what to say even though I want to talk to him… idk if he wants to. But we sleep call quite a bit (we don’t live in the same place). But I definitely want to have a deeper connection with him in general but not really sure how to? I mean, with my anxiety I think I worry I’ll mess up. However, I’ve been trying to be kinder to myself and use affirmations to feel better too. But when I’m around him it’s this like I want to talk to him but I don’t know what to say even if there’s lots of good things to say. I will say I’m definitely a bit of an overthinker though it’s not awful or as bad as it could be. But it’s not necessary. Any tips? Also may be visiting him later on this year but I worry about like omg what if this and that but it’s silly (like what if we fall out before then or things change) also I think he’s so cute and fine 🤭 and he plays a guitar