Hi it’s me again. I deleted the other post because i wasn’t sure if I was going to actually go through with it. I finally gained the courage to report my husband and his 1st class to their chain of command. I sent it right to the top. Screenshots and all. He’s on the USS Nimitz and she’s apparently pregnant now so she’s not on the ship right now since they’re deployed. He couldn’t even be at the birth of our child and hasn’t met her but could make another? I feel like I want to throw up. But I know it had to be done. He was saying he was leaving the military so my kids were going to lose the benefits anyways. I just found a job where I get insurance too so we’ll be okay. He’s not financially supporting us so what was the point in protecting him? I was always so supportive, I bragged about him and didn’t even look at another man. And he does this to me? But I know I’m gonna be the bad guy to them. Ruining two careers in one go. Am I the bad guy? I loved him so much. I still do deep down. I almost want to just post their names and let it spread like wildfire on that ship but I think reporting them is enough.
Update 1: I received an email back from the judge advocate saying he will be looking into it and will make sure appropriate action is taken.