Hi everyone. I hope anyone you sees this is well or getting into a better situation.
I (nb24) am a survivor of domestic violence and abuse. My ex and I broke up at the beginning of 2023 and he moved out June 2023. We had some contact because of me having some of his belongings still and even when he came to receive those it did not go well. We have not had any contact at all since about idk fall 2023. He has texted me multiple times throughout the years to ask me questions about seeing my cats or other things but I have never answered. Also another thing to add is all this time he had not been on instagram and had left a photo of me remaining for YEARS after our breakup. My best friend follows him still to see if it will ever come down/if he ever posts anyone else as I am willing to share information because of how dangerous he is. But for those years it seemed as though he had not been on instagram at all.
Flash to today when my best friend lets me know that he has not only deleted the photo, which would have just been good news, but liked a picture on my best friends account that is from 2023 that includes a baby photo of me.
That is completely it, everything that has happened but I am deeply discomforted. I dont know why he would do this and I am scared. I walked a completely different way to work today and wore a different outfit scared. I dont know if anyone has any advice or theories or I dont know anything to say about this. Is it not as concerning as I think it is? Just weird?
This man has in detail described all the ways he would want to harm me or my cats, or have someone else do it. So I just cant sit with it and not be suspicious and scared and lost. If anyone knows anything about what I could do to comfort myself or helo please let me know.