AITAH for sending my best friends boyfriend a picture
Hi Reddit. I (20f) have had the same best friend (20f) since junior year of high school, or since we were 16. As we’ve grown ofc there has been some distance but I never thought things were bad or anything.
This story starts when one day I was messaging my other girl friend on snap chat, I have both my best friend and her boyfriend (19m) on there. I had sent other friend a picture of me doing a peace sign with my tongue sticking out, I was fully clothed and just making dumb faces at the camera. Now what I didn’t realize was it had sent to my best friends boyfriend. I immediately messaged him and said “sorry wrong person lol” and left it. He read it a bit later and then a couple minutes later my boyfriend (22m) who is friends with her boyfriend, messaged me and said “hey she’s really upset with you”
Now of course I was confused and asked why, my boyfriend then proceeded to tell me “she thinks you sent that photo on purpose to flirt with him”
I mean this in the nicest way possible, I would never flirt with her boyfriend even if we were both single. I’ve known him as long as I’ve known my best friend and he is the epitome of a man child. Just a week prior to this my best friend said she wanted to break up with him because he’s childish, still doesn’t have a job, lives rent free in her family’s house and is the only one who doesn’t work, doesn’t clean, and just in general is a man baby. He’s a great friend but god knows not to put us together cause I’d scream at him.
I was really upset with how she took my accidental picture so I tried to message her but her boyfriend texted me and said “she really doesn’t want to talk to you” so I messaged him back and said “you tell her then that I’m blocking you both, just so she doesn’t get any ideas about us” and since then I haven’t spoken to her. I’ve asked my boyfriend if I should apologize and he always says “for what exactly?” And I realize maybe he’s right. But any advice is nice