So just to preface this my (m29) partner (f25) have been together about a year and a half and she is already pretty much head to toe in tattoos, most of which I love or are indifferent towards and never tell her she cant have tattoos, its her body.
But she's recently got a stomach peice, a huge detailed spider covered in hair and with that look like warts? Boils? Over its body spanning from her underbust to waistline, I knew she wanted a spider peice but didnt actually see the design or size until after it was done.
Now I am by no means scared of spiders, I quite like them but seeing that front and centre when were being intimate is killing the mood for lack of a better term. So AITAH for not having the same level of attraction/ intimacy with her following this?
Update since its kinda popping off in here: So to clear things up i still find her attractive and obviously dont want to end up cutting things off. Its just the detail in the peice that is giving my the heebie jeebies, going off the advice of some of the comments I am going to sit down and talk to her later about it, gently. I respect that she can do what she wants with her body but also put across how it affects me.