u/DcBlueSealover

We both are 24 and I’m scared for her mental health!! She comes from a very strict and toxic family and even though they’re rich af, her dad isn’t letting her go to therapy! I’ve a lil knowledge of psychology so i’ve been sitting with her regularly and taking unofficial sessions. Each day she says that sentence so many times! I’m pretty sure she’s suicidal. She’s an amazing person, very vibrant but her family just sucks here soul and pressurizes her. She stopped applying to jobs completely and literally just sits in her room all day! She stopped eating food and stopped going on walks which she used to love!

How can I help her?? Please give me advice!

I’m not even young! i’m 24f!!! I really hope no one here recognises me.

I’m from a non tech background so finding a job in this tech works is so hard.

i have so many things to do in life. I just know i’ll do good but idk what it’ll be!!

i did history, political science and public adm for my graduation. why? idk! idk why i didn’t take math or science. I think i just felt they were hard and i hate them?

I am doing a law degree right now (second degree) but why? idk. sounds cool plus doesn’t give me anxiety about job or work because i’m still studying!! i don’t see myself doing law for a long time. It’s just for knowledge because Ik i’ll get into business and contracts will be easier to make and understand.

I am also doing a masters in psychology, because i am interested in it. but i am not very interested in counseling!

I want to work in corporate but again, i can’t do a 9-5 because i have to HAVE TO start a business and then, more. funny thing is, i have a dream company (DE SHAW) but they won’t take me because i have no value to add to them because of my educational background.

I want to write a mafia romance novel (started one 3 years back, i wrote a few chapters and my friends liked it).

I want to become a content creator but I’m scared of being judged by people around me.

I want to get into jewellery modeling but I am mid size.

I want to get into acting but only as a side quest.

I want to do event management. I want to start a jewellery business. I want to make clothes. I want to volunteer as a psychologist. I want to be a business consultant (I kinda already am to my friends and i give them amazing suggestions but i somehow can’t do it for myself. like?)

I’m planning to do MBA in a famous college next cause it will help me get into de shaw. Then i’m like what if i do corporate law in a reputed university. But but but, why should i do corporate law ONLY to get into de shaw? Cause even then there is no guarantee i’ll get into it.

Then I really want to go abroad and study but what do i study if i don’t know what i want to do in life?

but again, i also want to prepare for govt exams! but idk

Please help me. I keep getting sadder and sadder each day cause i have no clarity.

at this point, i just want to make money. idk.

The catch is… I’m not an influencer. But I did go to such events earlier as a +1, this time, I am taking a +1. No nazar 🧿 pleaseeeeeee. I have less than 2k followers on Instagram and currently my account is also deactivated!

I’m confident but at the same time I’m feeling like an imposter!! Girlies, what do I do!!! Give me confidence tips! Please 🙏 I’m sooo scared!! I can’t and don’t want to look ordinary tomorrow!!

Self care tips and tips to look my best and tips to stay confident will really help me out! How do I not feel like an imposter?

I don’t have influencer type clothes or footwear, how do I manage? What if they realize I’m not an influencer? I’m scared