TLDR;
Me & this girl were dating for a year & we never really discussed boundaries i just assumed were in the moment with each other & really didn’t need to but I figured out she was talking to a guy from work she’s been friends with before we started dating. I saw his unsaved number on her phone. She said he had feelings for her but she was only friendly with him & they never did anything but talk at work & text outside of work she never told me. One night I came to check on her & she what she did after work & she came out & another coworker came out & they talked from a far for a minute then she gave almost like a side hug then then she left. She said it was just friendly but I don’t believe her. She told me she’s been faithful & hasn’t done anything wrong. She seems like a good girl & she’s been hurt in the past & wouldn’t do that.
What do you think?