AITAH for not wanting meat to be served at a family party?
My partner and I are getting married this summer. It's going to be a small ceremony at a registry office. My partner comes from a large family and specified they would like a party after the wedding to celebrate with them.
We didn't want to spend lots of money, so we asked my partner's mother if she could host the party in her back garden. She said she would be very happy to, and also said that she would pay for the party, which was very generous of her.
I have been vegan for around 7 years, and my partner mostly eats vegetarian. I asked if we could have just vegetarian food served at the party. My partner's mother has said no, as she is paying for catering and the majority of the people attending eat meat.
I never aim to be preachy about veganism, and I don't like making people feel judged or uncomfortable. That being said, I feel really weird about serving meat at my own party.
Should I stand up for myself or let this one go?