Trouble with anal
I have what might be a controversial question but please be kind..
My husband wants to do anal. I don’t. Am I being selfish?
We are very kink oriented and adventurous. We also have matching libidos. The man doesn’t enjoy really rough sex, but does it for me. He isn’t into being anally penetrated, but if I told him I wanted to do it to him, he’d do it without hesitation for my pleasure.
I’ve done plugs and stuff, but it’s kind of “meh” for me. He really really wants to, but is respecting my boundaries and isn’t pressuring me. I’m just in my head about it. He’s constantly making sure my pleasure is prioritized, and I want to do the same for him. Am I being selfish by not just letting him have his fun? His pleasure means everything to me, I feel like I just have a mental block about this that I can’t overcome.