u/Da_baxi

Hey guys im M21 and im struggling with my self image. To be honest im still a virgin and have never really tried approaching women because I often feel like im simply not attractive enough.

My perception of myself changes constantly sometimes i think i look okay,but most days i just feel ugly. Im also relatively short with 165cm/5,5ft which adds to my insecurities cause every social media post i see of women saying what they want in a man is a tall man you guys have to know tho i am taking care of myself i do skincare i go to the gym i work in construction aswell so im definetly not a guy who doesn't look out after himself.

The proplem is tho Ive never put myself out there infront of women so I have zero feedback.How can i realistically tell if im unattractive or if i just lack confidence bc i do have a special personality when im with people idk im insanely shy but once i get to know someone im just the loudest Pearson and trying to make everyone laugh even tho im sometime cringe doing so but my friends like that side of me.

Thanks for every Reply