Problem/Goal: There is this girl(26F) in the office I am interested in. We started talking properly 3months ago. I am a guy(28M) who opens topics to get the conversation to flow. I have talked to other girls before and keeping the conversation going was not a problem at all.
For this girl, I open topics and she'll be replying properly but then, the topics will eventually die out after like 2-3 days when she send closed-ended replies. So I got tired and stopped reaching out after a couple of these cycles. But after a few days, she sent me a reel on IG about a show we both watch. We talked again, and it was going well but then she sent a closed-ended reply again.
She was bothered before when I was cold to her in the office and we had a long talk about that. We had these alone moments and had deep talks already. She mentioned she's a lazy texter and I want to pursue if that's just the case. But I want to stop bothering her if she's bothered by it since I also care for her greatly. This cycle of reaching out, having good convo then dying out is honestly so tiring.
I need the advice of the unsociable lazy texter girlies out there please.