Sooo I (30M) have a third date with a girl (30F) and just wondering how to initiate hand holding/kissing. To give context, I never been in a relationship and only had a few dates here and there that didn’t go anywhere. I always feel more comfortable asking but I’ve seen some responses not to do that…
The first date went well but the 2nd date was a bit of a struggle for me as I suck at talking to people, which she pointed out in a nice way (most of my dates note this as well). TBH I was surprised she was down for a 3rd date but her response wasn’t as enthusiastic as when I asked her for a 2nd date. I like her and don’t want her to think otherwise by not making a move, but on the other hand I’m still not sure if she’s completely interested and don’t want to force contact.