. I’m f29 and have been with my fiancé M33 for 10 years. We have two young children and we are very very happy he’s a great dad etc etc . We do have sex often maybe twice a week up to even three times. However it’s been a few days since we last had sex as I have not been sleeping well due to our baby etc. my partner told me this evening he would like me to give him a blowjob tonight I said I will see as I’m tired and we are due to watch our favourite tv show like we do every week and as sad as it is watching the show is the highlight of my week as I love it. Anyway moving on, after we finished the show I told him I was really tired and would like to go to sleep and he got quite annoyed and said that he wishes that I made time for us tonight instead of my show and I was quite upset and got quite angry back. It was his tone and the way he said he wishes I made time for us tonight…. Frankly I wasn’t in the mood but I then said right ok let’s do it and he then said no your not making time for us so leave it.
It feels a bit like guilt tripping and I have told him this before as this has happened before and he gets annoyed when I bring that up and strongly denies it. Maybe I’m wrong I don’t know anymore 🙈🙈 just looking for a vent or how to approach this with him?