Not looking for advice but willing to hear anyone's opinions. I (30's/F) have this "thing" for an online friend (30's/M). we play all sorts of online games together and with others; but mostly we (the whole group) just banters with one another. I've caught myself lately crushing pretty hard on him. To the point I've had some brief yet wild fantasies about him. I also cant seem to shake this feeling there might be similar feelings too. Honestly, I could just be reading into things.
Now for the kicker, we are both happily married, obviously to other people. We even live states away. With no intention on meeting in person. Neither of us has said anything inappropriate to the other. I just feel wrong for having such an intense crush. I've thought about pulling myself away for a while but thats not fair to him or myself or even the group. I feel silly honestly but I do understand the attraction. To start he's a very handsome man and has a lot of the same personality traits as my husband. Easy enough to say I have a type.