u/CutiePie1012

So, here's the thing:

I saw some random Turkish man at my job (He works from the Turkey office) and now I'm thinking would he even consider me as a life partner.

The only criteria is that he is taller than me, as Turkish men are pretty short. I'm 165cm.

Sure, he is not even aware of my existence, but hey, can one dream at least?

Anyhow, been doing my due diligence on Turkish men and wanted your insight.

1. What can I expect from a Turkish man? I've heard that they are extremely jealous, possessive and controlling.

That for example, I wouldn't be able to wear dresses, or anything short. I don't even wear that, I'm conservative, but that sounds kinda funny do me. And i have so many pretty dresses that I'm waiting to wear once i lose 8kg.

2. Second thing is: I'm not religious, never was, and never will be, although I fully respect everyone's decisions and choices in life, as long as they don't have an influence on mine.

3. Cheaters and scammers, are they all? It is said that they are sweet talkers.

4. I know blondes are attractive to Turkish men, but I am not one of them, would I pass the bar, or am i doomed to forever suffer in silence without that Turkish man, that doesn't know I'm suffering because of the lack of his attention? Oh, life is suffering...

How is he like:

He's educated, smart, speaks advanced English, sure, a bit overly confident, but hey, i think that's in their blood.

Been watching some TikToks of Turkish soap operas of passionate/love scenes, like he is jealous and is angry, on the verge of 50 shades of gray.

Will I have those scenes play out in real life? Hmmm.

But most ladies say that Turkish men are kinda desperate for female attention, so they would hit on anything. I don't want to be anything.

I want to be special.

I can't even say anything, as we don't work in the same department, he might think I'm creepy, but I'm cute and invested, who wouldn't want that?

So, can you please give me some info regarding Turkish men? A general overview so i can add to my fantasies and give them more colors and flavours.

The workload in our company is insane, and just a few of us working.

A few months earlier I confessed to my manager I couldn't take it and wanted to resign, as I was overwhelmed by the amount of everything.

She calmed me down and convinced me to stay.

I have never had this amount of workload in my life and I'm not a person that ever thought of a possibility to quit regarding it, but I just on some days cannot even speak, due to the shock of attempting and failing to get everything done. I'm in awe.

My confidence is completely shattered to pieces and I started feeling very depressed lately and in this doom mood.

Now, we have tasks that were on the back burner, piled up and in need of immediate attention.

People now are going to work more hours for free, to get that done, because we cannot finish in the frame of time during working hours due to other work being constantly given to work on.

One coworker has, as well, expressed to management the concerns regarding workload and that she feels extremely under pressure but the manager shurged it and said if we were doing tasks regularly everyday we wouldn't be facing such a predicament, disregarding completely our side and saying how the workload has increased to everyone.

I understand she is getting pressured as well from "above", but people here stay, on average 1-2 year, up until they decide to quit and now I have fully understood why.

And no one ever saw the issue regarding it.

Do you have a similar experience, what is to be done?

Went to a new injector and told her that filler doesn't last on me, she said she usually doesn't do this but informed me that she will put the thicker filler in my lips.

I thought she meant a thicker version of the one that's intended for the lips, but she put Revolax sub q in my lips.

I'm so depressed right now, thinking i might get a botched lip or health problems.

Once I asked my prior injector was that possible to do, he said no and explained the concerns as it's suppose to replicate the firmness of a bone etc, but this woman did it, and I wasn't even properly informed or asked.

The reason I went to her was because I heard that this cheap Revolax filler lasts longer on people. But i wanted the thicker filler lip version of it, not the one for the jaw and chin in my lips.

I'm literally shaking and having a nervous breakdown.

Someone help me.