26m here I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend 24m for 5 years he’s been my first serious relationship and same as everyone else it started off great. Over the last 2 years it’s felt like a downward spiral, the intimacy has become almost nonexistent and the conversations have turned more to arguments. Here as of lately he has had to go several states away for work and the communication has gotten ever worse. As of now I get a good morning and a goodnight snap at best and throughout the day he will get on answer other people but purposefully ignore me and is not just a hour maybe two is six or eight hours.
Side note the relationship is already in a tense place as I caught him lying and going behind my back and hiding that he was smoking weed for six months. I know for many people they’ll think it’s no big deal but it was a boundary that was set very early in the relationship.
I am at a loss on what to do, how to feel or where to go. So here I am on Reddit trying to find some feedback