27 (F4A) #Online Looking for firm hands and a soft heart
Hi there stranger! 😊💗
I am looking for someone who can be both, a dom who takes charge, *and* a genuine friend I can play video games with and just have a good time around. I want intimate conversations, someone who gets excited about their own interests and actually wants to hear about mine too. I like to match that energy, and love passionate people.
A little about me I am 27, bisexual, Black cis woman, 5'5", fat, left-leaning, based in the USA. I love video games, trying to get more into physical crafts and reading again, I have just started learning game dev/ coding in my free time and that’s been really interesting. Some video games I’ve been playing are: FFXIV (currently a little past heavensward rn), Marvel Rivals, plenty of puzzle games, two point museum, but I have tons of games in general. I sometimes like to weave spicy play with game play too, I am a wonderful heal/tank slut. 😇
I want someone who can take charge, confidence and being able to tell me what you want is so attractive to me. But I am also looking for someone who knows when to just be soft and present when I'm not in that headspace. I love the princess treatment: praise, attention, being made to feel special. That said, a little degradation sprinkled in goes a long way for me. Less mean, more condescending in that fond, teasing way. Like you can't believe how little I know and you find it a little pathetic and a little adorable at the same time. That specific energy does things to me.
Fair warning though, I do have a bit of a bratty side. Nothing unmanageable, but I might need a little convincing sometimes. Very much looking for someone who can handle that with a firm hand and a smile.
I'm into most kinky things and happy to talk through specifics, but the vibe I'm chasing is someone who is able to turn my brain off. I'm looking for someone patient enough to get me there, who leads with care and intention. Someone who pays attention to what I say and actually remembers it. If you can go multiple times in one night, literal heaven as someone who can be quite needy.
Consistency matters to me too. I'm not asking for constant attention, life happens of course. But if I like you, I'm going to crave hearing from you. Regular check ins, remembering things I've told you, showing up with some reliability. I get attached when someone makes me feel seen, so if you're looking for something casual and low contact, we're probably not a match. But if you actually want someone who will pour into you right back? I can be very good at that.
Two things that I need: a nice voice (I tend to look for deeper voices in general), the ability to make me laugh, and if you can ahem go for a longer time that also really helps me. If you can do/ have all three, I am already swooning.
I'm not ready to jump straight to pictures. I'd rather have a conversation or two first and actually get to know you. No rush on that. I like texting but voice calls are better for me. I'm usually on discord *if I don't respond soon I'm probably asleep it's pretty late and I should have been asleep already 👌🏾😬*