u/Cute-Split-5550

Me f 23 my best friend Tiffany f 28 are having a disagreement about how I don’t want my daughter 3 around her niece Katie 6 . Tiffany and i met as neighbor we would hang out all the time and the kids would have play dates all the time. When we would go over Tiffany would have issues with Katie like talking back or giving her dirty looks and lying to her. My daughter started to have outbursts everytime she would play with Katie .So i started to pay a little more attention when they would play and so would my husband. We both started to realize how Katie would do things to my daughter when we weren’t looking like making faces or do other things like pretending to kick her,put fingers in her face,taking her toys away and trying to hide them from her,putting my daughter on top of her and trying to kiss her. Everytime katie would do something I would tell her not to do it and Tiffany would end up getting upset with my daughter when Katie was the one doing stuff to my daughter. Once Katie would get cought she would immediately say she didn’t do anything or that my daughter was doing it when we had saw Katie being rude to my daughter. When Tiffany was my neighbor it was easier to separate the girls. Once she moved I told her it would be better since Katie wouldn’t be coming as much but then Katie was coming all the time and it started to stress me out. My husband and my 3 month old would be sleeping and Katie would be screaming in my home and I would tell her to stop being loud multiple times and she would continue and Tiffany wouldn’t say anything to Katie. Recently we started to realize that my 3 year old started to do the same things Katie would do like talk back to us or not listen or give us dirty looks. I had sat Tiffany down and told her that it’s best we separated the girls since Katie is a bad influence on my daughter and that she correct Katie‘s behavior and I correct my daughter’s behavior and we can talk about reuniting the kids in the future. At the time I sat her down she was dealing with the news that her sister was passing away. Tiffany had told me that it wasn’t right for me to bring it up at the time I did and I had told her that I had been giving her signs i didn’t want Katie around my daughter like asking if she was bringing her or not and being visibly annoyed when she was around and that it shouldn’t have been a surprise that I brought it up. Since I have talk to her about it she had stopped talking to me and hasn’t really come to visit so Anita for telling her that i didn’t want Katie around anymore.