Am I being little overwhelmed about this all?
This is my very first baby. I’m only 18 weeks along and today I was hanging out with my family. My husband always get sick very easily to the point it I’m little worried. (That the most important info until later) My own family doesn’t get sick nor we always still hang out with each other if one of us are sick. (I’m learning better and I thought it was normal as a kid until I meant my husband.) my family never tell anyone if they are sick until couple of weeks later. So now, I know it to early but I’m making baby rules and the baby registry. So first of baby registry I wanted to make sure everything is new because I’m stressing anything Facebook marketplace baby stuff will hard to wash out of and even I don’t know what they even did to it. She even try to get me to already used breast bumps. I think it perfect for other people who don’t mind but for me I will totally get it for my own money if no one have gotten it for me. (I already told them I will get everything else on the baby registry if no one want to get them.) Now while we were eating for mother day. Everyone of my family bought up saying “damn…super crazy mama over first baby got it. I bet we wouldn’t be kissing or even licking the feet?” My own mother say out loud “wait until she to sleepy or leave the room to do all that.” I know from experience that if they are sick they would still do this to my own baby. I’m so stressing about if it better just not even go near my family at all for my baby health for not following my baby rules or just cancel the baby shower so they don’t used that against me for later? Im not scared to disown any of my family members for his better future.