u/CurveFew8378

My girlfriend wanted to go on a trip with me but doesn’t currently have access to any money. As a result, I’ve paid for the entire cost of hotels and transportation myself, but she told me she’d repay me for half once she could.

To make sure I didn’t forget to follow up on that, I set up a reminder in my calendar to ask her to repay me once she got the funds in case she forgot, but she got mad when she saw me doing that, saying that I don’t trust her to repay me by herself. I do trust her to repay me, and told her it was just in case we forgot and that I would appreciate it if I were the one in her position, but she responded that I was just giving an excuse.

AITAH?