u/Current_Kick4043

I (23y) have 3 sisters. One is 28, 25, and 13. My 28 year old sister asked me and my 25 year old sister to both be her Maid of Honor and we are both thrilled. Then, a few months later, my 25 year old sister asked me to be her Maid of Honor. I said yes, thinking the oldest sibling would also be her Maid of Honor together, but no. She only asked me because our oldest sibling is a mom and has a lot on her plate. But I do too. I’m finishing up nursing school, studying for the boards, struggling paying off student loans and also helping our oldest sister with her wedding. Also, all 3 of us are getting married back to back. So I even have my own wedding to plan!!! I was also bullied by this sister (25y) growing up and have a lot of tension from that. We use to share a room growing up and I wasn’t allowed in the room when she was in there, I wasn’t allowed to participate in activities that she did, like drama and music classes, and she has yelled at me in front of people more than once; “go away” “Nobody likes you” “You’re so annoying” “These are my friends not yours” ect. Now that we are adults, she’s trying to be all buddy buddy and it’s scaring me tbh. I feel like she’s just using me. And I’m sorry to say, she’s the kind of person that if you’re not useful to her, she cuts you out. I’m still helping her with her wedding and planning her bridal shower and bachelorette party, but is it wrong of me to feel these feelings? Should I tell her?