He ( 22 M) keeps going soft. is it me (24 F) ?
A guy (22M) and I (24F) have hung out a few times, and every time we try to have sex, he goes soft when it’s time to insert. Every single time. He’ll be hard all night without me touching him, during but the second it’s time for penetration, he deflates. What’s going on?
He says it’s not me and it’s how his body behaves when he likes someone, he just needs. but this keeps happening every single time and I’ve give so much time and patience truly. I’ve given up on having sex with him now, but I’m honestly so intrigued by the experience, it’s new for me.
he says he’s perfectly fine when it comes to randoms (people he just hooks up with) and that made me feel worse.
(not my boyfriend by the way. just a guy i felt could be a good casual partner- i’m not invested and have already given up)