u/CurrentCharacter1 — reddlx

Starting this off with the fact that me and her are both freshmen in hs

She loves to play the victim icl, she loves to argue but can’t fathom the fact that she can be wrong, and if she is, she’ll make herself the victim.

Context: over vacation my ex friend who I’ll call rainbow said that her younger sister might be darker than me, and compared my skin color to a pitch black sign, so me and my older sister (who was also her friend) made a gc with me her and rainbow (the texts are above)

She also told a mutual friend and that mutual friend told me what she said
Gc between me rainbow and my sister is the one with yellow (rainbows texts marked w red) and the one with the friend she texted will be marked with white

Sorry if it’s hard to follow

She didn’t come to school today, these text were sent yesterday, sorry I’m posting these here don’t get mad or ask why I just did bc I can if idk

She was talking bad about me in the group chat between the mutual friend and another friend. Never typed out the word racist (basically never wanting to say her comments were racist) but she was also an awful friend. She loved talking about people’s bodies and FTM trans ppl who still dressed feminine, would always say she was woke when she just had an obsession with trying to be a token white person. She’d always rely on me to educate her on topics when she was in the comfort of her own home (meaning she could do her own research) and I felt sick when I was near her. (she said the comments on Saturday, I slept over and made my father pick me up early, I told my friend Monday and my lunch table Tuesday and sent the text Wednesday)

Today I was talking to my friends about the texts and they literally said that they know I don’t talk to people when something’s wrong and they’d have to rely on my body language to see if something’s wrong, they told me they could tell how uncomfortable and quiet I was around her and how clear it was that I wasn’t comfortable around her.

Ever since our mutual friends found out about what she said they also realized how much of a shit person she is, how selfish and ignorant she is.

She made me feel like a shit person all year cause she’d always bring up the ‘arguments’ we had over text up infront of other people even when I told her to stop. I hate confrontation,
I’m sensitive too, so when she would do it, she’d yell over me, and not let me say anything, so even when she was done I stayed quiet cause I knew I’d cry if I tried to speak, I would always ask her the same question after she did something that hurt my feelings “if I had a s/o and they were doing the same thing you’re doing to me right now, you’d tell me ti break up with them” but she’d never understand because she never tried to see other people’s perspectives and today I felt so good because I dropped the one person who made me feel awful this whole year